It is really a matter of surprise and shame for all of us that a Daughter-in-law can’t be a daughter in India. After marriage girl becomes bride and goes to in-laws house with the hope of getting love from each and every member but her dreams vanished soon. Mostly we have seen that in laws never accept their daughter-in-law like their own daughter. I have come across several such types of cases in different parts of India. Condition of daughter–in-law is more or less is same everywhere in India. In-laws never feel the pain, worries of that girl who has just joined their family after leaving her parents, brother, sisters, and friends. Mostly the mother-in-law also forgets her own time when she had got married and went to in-laws house and faced similar situation.
We should guide her in a proper way because it is not possible for her to do everything right in a new atmosphere. We should help her instead of teasing. Otherwise she will be depressed soon. We should not become heartless. We should appreciate her good work, good habits. Proper adjustment and understanding should always be there between in-laws and a bride. We should not differentiate between daughter and a daughter-in-law. We should treat both equally. Bride should also understand her responsibilities and act accordingly because she has to satisfy each and everyone there including husband,mother-in-law,father-in-law.Small things should be ignored and should not be highlighted.
Bride should also have patience she should not complain her parents for each and every small problem. She should respect her in-laws and try to solve family problems herself instead of disturbing her parents, relatives. For any injustice everybody including law is with you. If everything is in your control go ahead. We should remember one thing that the Joys and sorrows are the essential part of life
It is very essential for everyone to change their mentality. We should defiantly treat our daughter-in-law like our own daughter. Teasing all the time is not good for anyone .it is bad for mantle peace and peaceful healthy atmosphere of family as well as home. We should not be hyper always we should try our best to be cool It is not only good for us, our health but also the entire family.